» Ladies, Be Wise! That Man Will Not Fall For You Unless You Give Him These Things

If you have tried in vain to get a firm grip on
your man and things are not working out,
then this is for you.
Relationship success really comes down to one key thing.
Your ability to recognize, appreciate and meet the needs of
your partner. That takes effort from both parties. The more
men can connect to, and accept and communicate their needs
to their partner, the more deeply connected couples will
become.
1. Space
Men need time on their own to process information and
feelings. When women provide this space, it allows the man
to step forward. Women naturally want to decrease space to
create connection, which often makes men feel suffocated and
overwhelmed. It is important for men to communicate that by
having this space it makes them a better partner.
2. Affection
Although men have been programmed to show up strong and be
providers, they are still human and at their core have a need
for affection. It’s not natural for boys to go from being cared
for by their mothers to not needing any affection at all.
Let her know you like to be touched, kissed, or that when
she rubs your shoulders after a rough day, you feel loved.
Under that confident, strong, and manly exterior is still the
heart of a boy that needs to feel loved – and that is a really
good thing!
3. Respect
Men work hard. The desire to excel and contribute is a
natural part of their DNA. In order to achieve a sustainable
loving relationship bond with a woman, it is critical that she
respects him. Clearly, demanding respect is never an effective
way to get it; however, acting with integrity, sharing values,
building trust, and demonstrating respect for her is a great
way to garner respect.
4. Understanding
Men are different than women. Period. I think we all know
that by now. But do we really get that? Women complain
about how much men work but fail to understand that often a
man is fulfilling his life’s purpose through his work or
providing for his family, which is often his way of showing
love. It is easier for women to understand this need when
you can communicate how important your work is, not only to
you as a confident, contributing member of society, but as a
part of the partnership and the future you are building
together. If she understands the meaning of your work, she
will naturally be more understanding.
5. Connection with their kids
Women have traditionally been the primary caregiver of
children and for the most part still carry a lot of the weight
when caring for children. However, what often happens is
women brush off men’s attempts to help because they feel they
can do it better.
Don’t allow her to ‘sit you on the bench” when it comes to
the kids. Let her know she deserves some time alone or time
with her friends because she works so hard, and create a
space for you to connect with the kids.
6. To add value
Men by nature are problem solvers. Women just like to
share, to talk things through and to feel heard. If you can
shift your understanding to know that by simply being present
and actively listening to your partner, you are adding value,
then you will be miles ahead of most. Value does not always
come in the form of action or solution.
After you have listened and heard you can say, “Babe, that
is really frustrating. I thought of something that might help
you. Are you interested or do you just need an ear right
now?” Now that is adding golden value!
You have a lot of power to create freedom and happiness in
your relationship. They key is understand that having needs
does not make you needy, they make you human. The most
effective way to relationship success is for you to start
sharing them with your partner.
– Information Nigeria